Saturday, February 27, 2010

80/20 Rule

Bentuckee's note:
This is one of the best mail I got. I really love the logic the author puts in. And through experience I can tell that it's really true. Realising the conclusion will make us a happier person and thus living a more confident and fruitful life. Hope you would enjoy it and do read every word below.  
 
Reality---Worth Reading.
:QUOTE ' DO NOT LOOK BACK AND ASK WHY, LOOK FORWARD AND ASK WHY NOT'

A very valuable lesson to learn ...


Interesting quote from the movie 'Why did I get married?'
In most cases, especially in relationships, you will only get 80% of what you NEED and you will hardly get the other 20% that you WANT in your relationship. There is always another person (man or women) that you will meet and that will offer you the other 20% which is lacking in your relationship that you WANT
And believe me, 20% looks really good when you are not getting it at all in your current relationship.
But the problem is that you will always be tempted to leave that good 80% that you know you have, thinking that you will get something better with the other 20% that you WANT
But as reality has proven, in most cases, you will always end up with having the 20% that you WANT and loosing the 80% that you really NEED and that you already had.
Be careful in deciding between what you WANT and NEED in your life.
Adultery happens when you start looking for what you don't have. 'Wow, this girl in my office is a real looker. But it's not her Wynona Rider features that got me. I'm crazy about her because she's also understanding, intelligent, tender - so many things that my spouse is not'

Somewhere along the way, you'll find a woman or a man who will be more charming or sensitive. More alluring. More thoughtful. Richer. Have greater sex appeal. And you will find a woman or man who will need you and pursue you and go loco over you more than your spouse ever did.

Because no wife or husband is perfect. Because a spouse will only have 80% of what you're looking for. So adultery takes place when a husband or wife looks for the missing 20%. Let's say your wife is melancholic by nature.

You may find yourself drawn to the pretty clerk who has a cherry laugh no matter what she says: 'I broke my arm yesterday, Hahahaha . . ..'

Or because your wife is a homebody in slippers and pajamas, smelling of garlic and fish oil, you may fall for a fresh-smelling young sales representative that visits your office in a sharp black blazer, high heels, and a red pencil-cut skirt Or because your husband is the quiet
type, your heart may skip a beat when you meet an old college flame who has the makings of a talk show host.

But wait! That's only 20% of what you don't have.

Don't throw away the 80% that you already have!

That's not all. Add to your spouse's 80% the 100% that represents all the years that you have been with each other. The storms you have weathered together. The unforgettable moments of sadness and joy as a couple. The many adjustments you have made to love the other. The wealth of memories that you've accumulated as lovers.

Adultery happens when you start looking for what you don't have.

But faithfulness happens when you start thanking God for what you already have.

But I'm not just talking about marriage.

I'm talking about life!

About your jobs.
About your friends.
About your children.
About your lifestyles.

Are you like the economy airline passenger that perennially peeks through the door of the first class cabin, obsessed with what he's missing? 'They have got more leg room! Oh my, their food is served in porcelain! Wow, their seats recline at an 80% angle and they've got personal videos!'

I guarantee you'll be miserable for the entire trip! Don't live your life like that. Forget about what the world says is first class. Do you know that there are many first class passengers who are miserable in first class -- because they are not riding in a private Lear Jet?

The main message???


If you start appreciating what you have right now, wherever you are, you are first class!

Friday, February 26, 2010

Fruit Label

Bentuckee's note: 
I got this mail some time ago but then still, I never do as it says... perhaps this is a good reminder to you and me.
Read the Numbers on Your Fruit
 
I just found this out about a month ago and I've been an organic vegan for over four years, go figure. That just goes to say that we must all remain as students and continue to learn and learn never stop studying and gaining new information.
 
Okay, so what did I learn? 
I learned that sticker labels on the fruits actually tell you how the fruits have been grown whether they were organically grown or conventionally grown with pesticides and herbicides; oh, and let's not forget about the genetically engineered fruits.


Conventional Fruit Labels 
 
Four digits and does not start with 9
** mostly starting with the digit 4
 
Organic Fruit Labels
 
Five digits and starts with number 9
 
Genetically Modified Fruits
 
Start with the digit 8 
So next time you go shopping, remember these critical numbers and know
how to avoid purchasing inorganic and GMO fruits. 
Shop Safe :)
 
This is good to know because stores aren't obligated to tell you if a fruit has been genetically modified
 
Okay, so if you come across an apple in the store and it's label is 4922, it's an conventional apple grown with herbicides and harmful fertilizers. If it has a sticker 99222, it's organic and safe to eat.
If it says 89222, then RUN!!!! I t has been genetically modified (GMO).

Tuesday, February 23, 2010

沒錢 vs 有錢 Without Money VS Have money

There are a lot of truth in this mail that I got. It's best to read the Chinese version but the English version can give the general idea as well. Cling on it for a while...

沒錢的時候,養豬;
有錢的時候,養狗。
When without money, keep pigs;
When have money, keep dogs.

沒錢的時候,在家裡吃野菜;
有錢的時候,在酒店吃野菜。
When without money, eat at home with wife;
When have money, dine in fine restaurant
.

沒錢的時候,在馬路上騎自行車;
有錢的時候,在客廳裡騎自行車。
When without money, ride bicycle;
When have money, ride exercise machine.

沒錢的時候,想結婚;
有錢的時候,想離婚。
When without money, wish to get married;
When have money, wish to get divorced.

沒錢的時候,老婆兼秘書;
有錢的時候,秘書兼老婆。
When without money, wife becomes secretary;
When have money, secretary becomes wife.
沒錢的時候,假裝有錢;
有錢的時候,假裝沒錢。
When without money, act like rich man;
When with money, act like poor man.


啊,都不講實話:
Man, O Man, never tells the truth:

說股票是毒品,都在玩;
說金錢是罪惡,都在撈;
Says sharemarket is bad but keeps speculating;
Says money is evil but keeps
accumulating.
說美女是禍水,都想要;
說高處不勝寒,都在爬;
Says women are trouble-makers but keeps desiring them;
Says high positions are lonely but keeps wanting them.

說煙酒傷身體,就不戒;
說天堂最美好,都不去!!!
Says smoking & drinking is bad but keeps partaking;
Says heaven is good but
refused to go.
過去把第一次留給丈夫;
現在把第一胎留給丈夫。
In the past, woman gives man their virginity;
Now, woman gives man their newborn
.
鄉下早晨雞叫人,
城裡晚上人叫雞;
In the rural area, chicken calls man awake;
In the cities, man calls for chickens
.
舊社會戲子賣藝不賣身,
新社會演員賣身不賣藝。
In the past, famous actresses will not sell their bodies;
Now, actresses will set their bodies to get famous

Friday, February 19, 2010

What You Might See in the Train...

I have been quite a frequent user of KTM and LRT when I was in KL last 3 years. But I have never ever once see things like below...
I believe these pics are taken in China, perhaps. Maybe their trains are too comfortable that some of them eventually make them their homes. No worries, nothing like this will happen in Malaysia It's always overpacked. :(

Wednesday, February 17, 2010

1 egg + 2 mobiles

I don't how true is this. But if it's true, then don't do big business by listening to 2 mobile phones at a time for more than 65 minutes. You will see why...

1 Egg, & 2 Mobiles 

65 minutes of connection between mobiles.
We assembled something as per image: 

 
Initiated the call between the two mobiles and allowed 65 minutes approximately...
During the first 15 minutes nothing happened;
25 minutes later the egg started getting hot;
45 minutes later the egg is hot;
65 minutes later the egg is cooked.
 
Conclusion: The immediate radiation of the mobiles has the potential to modify the proteins of the egg. Imagine what it can do with the proteins of your brains when you do long calls. Please try to reduce long time calls on mobile phones and pass this mail to all your friends & Family you care for.


Scared?

Thursday, February 11, 2010

Girls...

When a GIRL is quiet ... millions of things are running in her mind.
 

When a GIRL is not arguing ... she is thinking deeply.

When a GIRL looks at u with eyes full of questions ... she is wondering how long you will be around.

When a GIRL answers ' I'm fine ' after a few seconds ... she is not at all fine.

When a GIRL stares at you she is wondering why you are lying.

When a GIRL lays on your chest .. she is wishing for you to be hers forever.

When a GIRL wants to see you everyday... she wants to be pampered.
 

When a GIRL says ' I love you ' .. she means it.

When a GIRL says ' I miss you ' .... no one in this world can miss you more than that.


Life only comes around once make sure u spend it with the right person ....

Find a guy... 


who calls you beautiful instead of hot, 

who calls you back when you hang up on him.

who will stay awake just to watch you sleep. Wait for the guy who ... kisses
your forehead.


who wants to show you off to the world when you are in your sweats.

who holds your hand in front of his friends.
 

who is constantly reminding you of how much he cares about you and how lucky he is to have you.

... and a guy who blogs like me. Lol.. All the best to you if you are not alone on Valentine's Day.

Sunday, February 7, 2010

Coffee Monalisa

Got this same mail the second time (again!). But am still amazed by the artist. 

Artist assistants stand next to 3,604 cups of coffee which have been made into a giant Mona Lisa in Sydney, Australia. The 3,604 cups of coffee were each filled with different amounts of milk to create the different shades!! 
Wonder if they can do one with Jesus' portrait. Hahaa... =)

Friday, February 5, 2010

This is what you call a wonderful TOY TRAIN SET

Twin brothers Frederick and Gerrit Braun, 41, of Hamburg , Germany , and their Minauteur Wunderkind.
Gerrit was busy constructing different things. From an igloo out of cigarette packs, to a technically advanced model railroad (by standards in those days). After his school graduation, he began to study business informatics, besides his job as manager of the discotheque Voilà. The following years his technical talent emerged more and more. And so he developed an accounting software for the catering trade which is still used today, and appliances for timekeeping in motorsports.
When Frederik told him about his idea of establishing the largest model railroad in the world, Gerrit knew after careful analysis that his brother had hit upon his own dream as well. He instantly realized that there were many new developments possible in modeling and that an unprecedented world can be created. Gerrit agreed and in the following months and years developed a range of technology (Car System, lighting control, real water basin and ship navigation system etc..) which make the Wunderland so unique. 
This is the world's biggest train set which covers 1,150 square meters (12,380 square feet), features almost six miles of track and is still not complete.
 
Twin brothers Frederick and Gerrit Braun, 41, began work on the 'Miniatur Wunderland' in 2000 
The set covers six regions including  America  ,  Switzerland  ,  Scandinavia  ,  Germany  and the Austrian Alps     

The American section features giant models of the Rocky Mountains, EvergladesGrand Canyon  ... 

...and  Mount Rushmore     
The Swiss section has a mini-Matterhorn  
The Scandinavian part has a 4ft long passenger ship floating in a 'fjord'  
It is expected to be finished in 2014, when the train set will cover more than 1,800 square meters (19, 376 sq ft) and feature almost 13 miles of track, by which time detailed models of parts of France, Italy and the UK will have been added.  
It comprises 700 trains with more than 10,000 carriages and wagons  
The longest train is 46ft long 
 The scenery includes 900 signals, 2,800 buildings, 4,000 cars - many with illuminated headlights... 
 
 ...and 160,000 individually designed figures  
 Thousands of kilograms of steel and wood was used to construct the scenery...
The 250,000 lights are rigged up to a system which mimics night and day by automatically turning them on and off   
The whole system is controlled from a massive high-tech nerve centre
In total the set has taken 500,000 hours and more than 8 million to put together, the vast majority of which has come from ticket sales.

Gerrit said: "Our idea was to build a world that men, woman, and children can be equally astonished and amazed in" 
Frederik added: "Whether gambling in  Las Vegas  , hiking in the  Alps  or paddling in Norwegian fjords - in Wunderland everything is possible"
The world's biggest model train set.
TALK ABOUT YOUR SECOND CHILDHOOD-----
“BOYS” AND THEIR TOYS....
It comprises 700 trains with more than 10,000 carriages and wagons. The longest train is 46 ft long.  The scenery includes 900 signals2,800 buildings, 4,000 cars - many with illuminated headlights and 160,000 individually designed figures. Thousands of kilograms of steel and wood was used to construct the scenery. The set is on display to the public and is so big that they employ more than 160 people to show visitors around their creation.


I'm always amazed by these works as these people are so dedicated in what they are doing... The world would be less colorful without them!! *salute*

Wednesday, February 3, 2010

What would you do when you are dying?

When I get a mail for 2 times I knew I have to post it here.
These 3 comic strips seem to originate from Korea... It's really funny... sorry for the not-so-clear pictures. 
Love your life! Live it to the max! 


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